Talking to Adoptive Parents – Great Things To Say

My last blog was about things that you should avoid saying to families formed by adoption. Many people say these things and don’t even realize that they could sound unkind. I think that often when people see a family with adopted children, they are curious because these kinds of families are not very common, though they are becoming more accepted in society. Here are some things that you can say that are appropriate and that will be appreciated by the family. “What a beautiful family!” This validates them as a family and celebrates their uniqueness. Especially when it is a … Continue reading

Talking to Adoptive Parents – What Not To Say

One of the biggest frustrations in the adoption community is the fact that those who are not touched by adoption usually do not understand it. Families that are created by adoption are considered an oddity and often those who are not familiar will say things that can be hurtful, even when that is not their intention. In this blog, I want to highlight some of the comments that many adoptive parents and their children hear on a regular basis. In the next blog, I will show you some positive things that you can say to an adoptive family. Please keep … Continue reading