Halloween is not a holiday filled with costumes and candy for everyone. There are many families who do not celebrate Halloween. These families often feel left out during this time of year. Events, meetings, and library activities and even story times are centered on Halloween this time of year. Families who chose not to celebrate find themselves missing their regular routine and co-op meetings to not compromise on their beliefs. This is not to suggest that celebrations and Halloween parties should not go on. Those who do not partake in Halloween are used to swimming upstream this time of year. I should know, my family does not celebrate Halloween. While, we have opted out of few co-op activities and parties, we are not offended or upset that these activities or parties were planned. However, it would be nice to do have an alternative this time of year.
If you belong to a group that does not celebrate Halloween or you can gather up a group of like minded friends and plan an alternative. Not an alternative that appears like Halloween but claims it is not. An alternative that allows the children to get together and avoid the festivities that may seem awkward on Halloween night. Many young children do not understand their parents’ conviction and need some distraction until they are old enough to appreciate the conviction. Perhaps, you can have a pizza party and play board games. You can spend the evening discussing Reformation Day. Consider discussing why you do not partake in Halloween and then have fun playing games or watching a movie.
If you cannot seem to find anyone who feels the same way then spend a quiet evening at home. Plan a night with games, movies, and a special dessert. It is important to share your conviction with your children so they learn to understand your position. Share it without condemnation or judgement on others and be careful they are not confused and think costumes or candy are the issue. Consider finding a resource to help you explain your position.