Tag Archives: open-minded

Do You Only Surround Yourself with Like-Minded Individuals?

Recently, I heard someone ask a question of a group of people and then add the clarifying caveat: “I don’t want to hear from those of you who have different opinions; I only want suggestions from like-minded individuals.” I could not help but wonder what was the point? I mean, how can only hearing from those who parrot your opinions be helpful in problem-solving, brainstorming, or even figuring out what is the best way to take your business? While having like-minded sorts around us can make us feel safer and more comfortable in our thinking, is that really the best … Continue reading →

Who Am I to Judge?

It seems to be human nature to judge—whether we are judging other people, situations or events. As a single parent, sometime our jugmentalism comes from a place of feeling defensive or self-conscious. I know that I wrestle with catching myself judging other people and often it is somehow a reflection of my own feeling about myself. I have to remind myself that I definitely do not like being on the receiving end and feeling so judged, so who am I to judge others? I think it is incredibly typical for us as single parents to develop a thick shell and … Continue reading →